In A New Language For Life, You Don’t Have to Get Even
In our lives unexpected things happen. People disappoint us. You may even have been taken advantage of. How do you deal with such an experience? How do you stay true to yourself?
In a new language for life, you relate to someone as the possibility of being. Any strong reaction brings you back into the default language for life, the language of “I” versus “you.” You recognize and embrace your humanity when you are unexpectedly drawn into the language of “I.” You are compassionate with yourself and with the other person.
You realize that forgiveness is the only way to set yourself free and restore the integrity of your being. You realize that getting even is not the way to restore the space of being when something unwholesome happens in your life.
In a new language for life, you don’t have to get even.
ABOUT LOUIS KOSTER
Hi, Louis here, author of the inspiring book “A New Language for Life, Happy No Matter What!” Click here to get a free download of the book. Thanks for checking out my blog posts. If you really want to test your spiritual beliefs, try being a medical doctor in war zones. I’ve been involved as a spiritual teacher, medical doctor and coach in the self-help industry for over 25 years and have developed a number of skills in helping people to awaken to their true nature and live inspired lives. Here Is Who I Am & What I Believe.
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Excelente , he aprendido a perdonar y retirar mi atencion para liberarme de quienes quieren hacer daño a los demás . Y tratar de manifestarles amor compasivo. Con excelentes resultados mutuos.
Querida Alma,
Mucho gracias por su preciosa comentario.
Con cariños
Louis
“You realize that forgiveness is the only way to set yourself free and restore the integrity of your being”
I love these words, pure expression of truth. Seeing that the forgiveness is the last step of an inner process that starts to honestly see which are the “structures/veils with which we identify ourselves. Deeply understanding these structures, how they act, in which contexts of life they are activated, allow us to see that we are not them, allow us to accept them and our past behaviour. We see that when we identify ourselves with those structures we act like robots. This process of deep understanding allow us to forgive and accept ourselves and others.
When we are no longer identifying ourselves with those structures, we can act more freely, not like robots and also we understand, accept the slavery condition of the man. and so forgiveness is a natural and spontaneous fact that bring union, love, healing and freedom.
Thank you for your dedication in light to raise the consciousness of mankind.
( learning english :))
Wishing everyOne a day in the harmony of the Heart.
Ciao
Alice
Dear Alice!
I love your comment! Thank you for sharing yourself in such as beautiful way!
Your being radiates beauty, light, and clarity in what you are writing.
Thank you for who you are and for being so kind to share your wisdom with me.
Namaste,
Louis.
Louis Koster
Thanks for the inspiring emails. it feels so good to read and also it’s the truth .
Thank you, Veena! It is really great to hear that you are inspired by my writing! With love, Louis.
Profound truth. Words spoken at the right time. I’m feeling better already. Thanks Louis
Lovely to hear that, Audrey! I acknowledge you for your generosity of spirit! I send you my love, Louis
I used to say I don’t get mad I get even. and it worked for me because a girl put a boy so instead of crying I got back and everyone was proud of me for standing up for myself. As I grew older this technique stopped working and I realize that success is the best revenge and focusing on myself to become my best version of helping others around you do the same is more fulfilling.
Thank you, Toni for your wise words! Love and light, Louis